Chapter 5. Job Articles 5
Get the Job 1
Communicate to them what you’ve done in your life so far and
what you want to do in the future in your resume and cover letter as shortly as
possible in two pages.
A career summary is a look at your work experience and
relevant education.
Give a short paragraph in your cover letter and resume
describing yourself.
Some resumes are chronological, they go by time from most
recent job or education to earlier times.
Some people add a list of their specific skills to the
resume.
The cover letter must be different from the resume.
Try to find out the name of the human resources contact or
hiring manager on the company’s website
or call the main phone number and asking a receptionist for the name and
title of the hiring office.
Don’t make the reader work too hard to see that you are right for the position
he or she is looking to fill.
It’s best to get a printer and create a new resume for every
position you are applying for tailored to them.
Make your cover letter tailored to the company.
Older people know the arrogance young people. They don’t like it.
Target your search to your skill in your area. Once you got your list of places, start
emailing them or finding the emails of hiring managers. Don’t make a pest of yourself in contacting
them.
Look for job ads on websites like monster and careerbuilder.
Get Job Alerts from job websites.
Use keywords to get the best results. Use the job title and place only.
Entry level means somebody without experience.
There are lots of job scams in the job ads. People post ads just to steal your identity
information. Don’t put your SSN or dat
of birth on your resume. Put your year
on but not the date. Type their name in
bbb.org.
Job-hunting is scary and tough. People say this in surveys and stuff. It’s one of thos ethings everybody hates.
Respectfully inquire about the status of your application
every month.
Put some kind of charity or community work in your resume.
Don’t insult anyone.
Don’t come off like a hater.
Try social media or your social media profile to get a
job. Say you’re looking for a job at
linkedin, facebook, etc. on your profile.
Clean the bad stuff from your social media profile.
Include a link to your website or professional
profile on linkedin, etc. on your résumé. Keep the name simple.
Use linkedin to get recommendations.
If you have a friend at a company you want to work for, ask
for a reference.
Hiring managers judge you by your clothes. Don’t overdress or underdress.
You must know about the company.
All you are is the goodness in your heart.
Bring extra copies of your résumé to an interview.
If you have gaps in your work history, they might ask you
about it.
One guy said he always look for people who volunteer in the
community.
Focus on the interviewer.
Don’t be narcissistic.
If you have a controversial fact that you can’t avoid
like being fired or in jail, personally I say you don’t have
to be honest. You can ignore it or lie
about it. You are who you are now. That’s it.
Ask questions you have about the company.
Don’t ask about salary.
An interview is your chance to say whatever you have to say.
Send a thank-you note to the interviewer. It’s necessary in the world of work. They expect it. If you don’t have the email contact
information, ask for it during the interview.
Check back once.
Unless the hiring manager tells you to check back, don’t do it.
You have to keep looking for work until you find a job.
Have a positive attitude.
Think positively before an interview.
Dress professionally.
Wear the least amount of jewelry as possible.
Dress like a politician would.
Sahow up with a clean car.
They might see it from the office.
If it’s dirty, it makes you look bad.
me interviewers walk the interviewee out to the car to have a look.
Bring a pad into an interview to take notes.
Leave Your cellphone out of an interview.
Your voice should be calm and moderately paced.
Be relaxed.
Brush your teeth.
Ask to take notes if you want.
If there are several interviewers, treat each and every
person with equal importance.
Treat a phone interview like a face-to-face interview.
If it’s a meal interview, don’t focus on food.
If they say you have no experience, say I can learn quickly.
If they say you have too much experience, say my life is
right here, right now. I’m always
learning.
Get the Job 2
In my heart and soul, I’ll tell you the truth. I’m a guy who has checked out all the big job
websites and every hyped-up job book out there.
They’re all brainwashed, clinical, left-brained, by-the-book and
formal-sounding. I’ve seen entire books
and several hundred pages on websites dedicated to resumes and interviews. Most people writing this stuff have lost a
hold of old-fashioned, traditional, religious values.
They’re giving you all this crap about how to prepare for
this and that but they never tell you it’s all about your essence, the light in
your soul, the goodness in your heart, the honesty in your voice, the warmth on
your face.
I scanned a 250-page book about interviewing. A job seeker doesn’t have time to read
psychobabble garbage. Prepare the best
resume you can, send it out to as many people and companies as possible and go
out there as an unassuming good instrument of God knowing you’re a good
person. You’re not slick. You’re just a good person talking to a person
at an interview. It’s not a great
feat. It’s not the end of the
world. You just live and do the best you
can then when you get rejected like everybody, you just keep going until you
get a job.
What are you really good at?
Go for it.
The internet has made job-hunting more competitive because
everybody is applying at the click of a mouse.
A recruiter needs to select the best candidates. You have to look good.
You need an iron-cast positive attitude because it could be
rough, especially after your first hundred rejections.
Identify what makes you better than your competition.
Define what you want.
Go after those jobs.
Creat a powerful short message about you on your resumes and
cover letter.
Network.
Look for jobs.
Look for companies that offer your job and apply.
Sell yourself.
Everything about interviews comes down to one thing: HOW
MUCH LOVE AND LIGHT DO YOU GIVE OFF?
Always send a thank-you email or letter. It’s expected.
Rejection is more normal than acceptance.
Come off like you’re there to help without coming off like a
slickster sleazo asshole. Slickster get
the jobs though. I saw it myself in interview
groups. The good people were too nice to
be assertive. The loudmouths got the
jobs. Employers don’t care about
goodness. They care about the asshole
who they know will do the job.
Be an attention-getter without being an asshole.
Interviews should be easy.
Go in with love. No matter what
happens you still got your dignity at the end of it.
Answer difficult interview questions without sweating.
You have to talk about yourself. Practice a little speech about who you
are. You have to do it everywhere in
life.
What is your biggest challenge? Tell them it’s trying to be true to your
natural sense of inspiration.
People fail at interviews because they make them seem so
important. You are who you are. That’s it.
Sell yourself through the whole job-hunting process.
You lack confidence because you don’t feel that you know
your true identity. Once you know your
true identity, you know who you are and that’s it. It doesn’t matter what other people say. Show love to try to get the job but the world
is nuts. People will be mean to you and
reject you. Some will be good to you.
Create a list of your personality traits and
accomplishments.
Everything in life is improvement. You are who you are. Do something good with it. All you got is fight or die. Do not take rejection personally.
It seems like everybody on TV got the easy life. Real life is hard.
Get a simple business email address. Try mail.com, hotmail.com or yahoo.com.
Staple a business card to your cover letter. Give yourself the title of your job.
You must dedicate time to the job hunt.
Do what you can control.
Look healthy.
Be as good as you can be at what you do.
Put yourself in the place of an interviewer. He sees you as generic person #5. Show love.
Be relaxed. Don’t be so formal
and uptight. It’s just human to human.
What can you do for them?
What is the exact job you want? Focus on that area.
Visualize a job you enjoy.
Work is about money but it’s also about self-fulfillment.
What is a good person, not a cool person, a good one? Be that person.
Find your true nature.
Follow it.
Before you apply for a job, check everything like the hours,
the travel, the place, etc.
They always ask, "Where do you want to be in five
years?"
In today's job market, you have to earn a job not just show
up.
The hiring manager wants to solve his problem. Show him you can solve it.
You should be hired because you’re a healthy, good, capable
person. SHOW THEM YOU CAN HELP THEM.
Employers fill old positions but create new positions. The write out the job description and create
the job. This is why you have to read
job ads and tailor your application to exactly what they want.
They might look at candidates inside the company, post ads,
or contact recruiters.
In most companies, the real manager hires most people. The HR staff are there in case the guy wants
their help.
When you go in for the interview, they are looking to see if
you’re healthy, good and helpful.
The funny thing is that people who act like they’re in
demand and don’t need the job get hired.
Desperation turns people off.
Interviewers will hire you if they think you will
solve a need and make them look good.
Nowadays with the internet a typical job ad can easily get a
hundred resumes in the first day. Make
your resume and cover letter a brief, powerful advertisement about you.
Ask permission before you list someone as a reference.
Your aura should be:
good
deferential
healthy
nice
pleasant
helpful
confident
Getting a Job Offer
If they offer you a job, don’t take it unless the salary is
enough.
Will they pay you enough compared to others doing a similar
job.
Can you renegotiate or are there raises?
Are their good benefits and perks?
Do you receive health benefits?
Do you have a flexible work schedule?
Ask yourself if you really want the job.
Will you fit in?
Do you like the boss, the guy that interviewed you?
Is this a job you can like?
Can you be here for a long time?
If you accept the job, they want to see excitement. They think they’re doing you a big
favor. Act happy.
Set up a Job Website
Set up a professional website that you put on your resume.
Use weebly or wix for a free website.
Set up a professional profile at linkedin or facebook.
Put a link to it on your resume.
What a Career Counselor Will Tell You
I got a free career counseling textbook. It was one book in a series of about 20
counseling books in different things all the way from eating disorders to
career change. They’re all the same. The counselor is basically a phony expert
that makes money pretending to know a lot more than you about the problem.
There is nothing all that advanced about a human being. You are either trying to be in harmony with
who you are by nature or you’re a lost soul.
That’s it.
Oftentimes, they’re just hired friendship for people who can
afford them.
They don’t know anything that you can’t find with a bit of
research.
Mostly they just give you a psychological motivational lift.
Here’s what the textbook said.
Look for support like a job support group.
Think upwards and forwards.
Set goals.
Pick a career that matches your true identity.
Be flexible about change.
Transfer skills from one career into your next career.
Stay active. Don’t
get down on yourself.
Work on getting a new job.
Deal with stress by walking and meditating.
Try being creative, start a business. Try freelancing at guru.com.
There is no answer.
You simply grieve after a job loss then start looking for a new job or education
for a new career.
Everybody has a true nature.
You will never feel good until you do what naturally inspires you but
you need money to survive. Almost
everybody sells their souls. It’s the
way life goes for most of us.
What did you like to do as a kid. Look for occupations that match those few
things you really liked to do as a kid.
There is no stability at work. You can lose your job. Your boss can change your job tasks.
It’s your life.
Nobody else can really decide for you like a career counselor. Do what God says in your inner voice.
I recently watched some graduation speeches on youtube. It’s all crap next to the bottom line – get a
job, earn money. Don’t go for that New
Age crap about finding your soul unless you want to be like the 99% of
unemployed actors on Hollywood.
People have to find their own path intuitively. Don’t let aptitude tests send you somewhere
you don’t want to go.
Self-assessment is finding your true nature. OK, so you know like physical activities and
you’re creative. So what. So are ten million others. You need a good job that pays well in an
in-demand field. Live in the real world.
Don’t aim too high because life is lived one day at a time.
There is ageism against older workers.
Most young people are massively brainwashed. A smart young person doesn’t get serious
about a career direction until they’re at least 27.
It’s a mix of finding something that you kinda like to be
and earning money. All the great jobs
are very competitive and scarce. Everything
has a downside. A job is a job. You’re somebody else’s servant.
Some people have unrealistic career aspirations like almost
every college student.
The only way to be really motivated is to love what you
do. Some people work hard even if they
hate what they do.
Some people are anti-social or can’t take orders. Discover yourself. If you can’t handle certain things, find a
career where you won’t deal with it.
Why be a teacher if you’re an introvert?
Work is simply you helping someone in exchange for money so
do your part.
It’s always about how desperate you are for money versus how
desperate you are to be your true self in your soul. Why do strippers strip? No woman wants to strip. It’s all about money.
I’ve talked to lots of people about jobs. Most say they’re not in their ideal career
but intend to be in the future even though they do nothing about looking for a
better lifestyle. How desperate are you
to find a career or business closer to your soul versus making a living at a
lukewarm job?
There is a lot of crap out there like them aptitude tests
that might say you’re good at something that you have no interest in. If some counselor says you’re good with
people but you’re an introvert, tell them you’re not really into that despite
what the tests say.
If you could do anything you want, what would you do?
What are things you feel most passionate about?
Not Suitable for a Job
People are what they are.
A lot of people can fake it but a lot of people can’t.
Some people aren’t suited for an eight-hour a day job. Find a way to employ yourself.
Some people are mentally ill.
Some people are lazy.
Some people have no real identity.
The government gives some people disability payments but
most people who can't work regular jobs are on their own. In my world, I would give everyone a small
apartment. There would be no
homelessness. That’s why I created the
People Power Program.
Unrealistic Expectations about Work
Another big thing is unrealistic expectations. It’s everywhere. When I was about 22 I thought that they
offered this degree in college, I got the degree now I should get a good
job. I realized there are many
unemployed people with graduate degrees in almost every field.
Nothing has changed.
On a CNN show, a host asked a Chinese guy what’s the big problem with
young college people. He said they think
they’re gonna get some grand slam job right out of college.
Everybody is brainwashed by TV. Some punk in some sit-com is living in a huge
apartment. They set everybody up with
that phony crap on TV.
Real life is not the life portrayed on TV.
Many people serving coffee have college degrees in useless
majors.
Do you want to be an astronaut? Waste twenty years of life doing crap stuff
before they let you fly.
Back in Charles Dickens’ day, it was the same thing. The newspapers, the priests and politicians
went around acting like everything was peachy cream. Life is really hard and horrible for a lot of
people. Nobody admits it.
Most people do not like their jobs all that much.
This is the real world.
Get a job. Do
it. Get your money. Buy a car and some junk. Shut up.
Life was not meant to be great joy doing something great that gives you
purpose.
Get real. I see all
these crappy books with all these aptitude tests and questions about finding
your life's purpose.
Go to Billy Joel’s song Allentown saying the diplomas hang
on the wall, didn’t help us at all, what’s real, iron, coke, chromium, steel.
They have all these pop idol shows on TV. A lot of kids want to be rap stars. They can make almost anybody a pop star or a
rap star but you have to sell your soul to them. It’s not about your talent. It’s about you doing what they say.
Welcome to the real world.
Don’t kill yourself.
Live day by day honoring who you are by nature by releasing
that natural energy.
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If You Do Good Work But Have a Bad Attitude, You Will Fail
Almost
nobody has a skill that is so unique that they are necessary.
The
biggest thing people want in someone they work with is a humble, socially
agreeable person. If you are grumpy,
angry or worse, people will not want you around.
Want a Job Badly Enough
Decide
what job you want.
Clean,
create and/ or manage your online reputation.
Have an
email address and telephone number for easy access.
Have a
good resume.
Keep
looking for possible employers and apply to them.
Keep
track of your job search so you don’t unknowingly repeatedly apply for the same
job.
Show
uniqueness somehow.
Have
the guts to open your local telephone book, find companies or organizations and
call them asking about applying for work.
Most
jobs are not posted or advertised. Most
people in bigger companies (more than ten employees) are always looking for
another good worker. That’s you if you
want it badly enough.
You
have to get out of your comfort zone, put yourself out there looking for a job.
Get out
there, make contact with people in your local area with jobs. Go to the company office, ask about jobs,
drop off your resume, fill out an application.
Volunteer
and intern.
Create
a profile at linkedin. Look on lookedin
for people in your field in your area.
Contact them to gradually network into a job. Don’t ask straight out. It’s too blatant. You have to make friends first. That’s how con artists work their scams.
Join
professional and industry associations,
most of
which have local chapters where you can meet people. Many have job boards.
Look at
the websites of local college career centers.
Try
alumni groups if they apply to you.
Join a
job hunting support-search group.
Visit
your state's government website of jobs.
Find
lists of groups to join at google groups
and yahoo groups.
Some
companies and agencies have tweets and RSS feeds where the ypost up new job
openings immediately. Get on those
feeds.
Look at
ads in online newspapers.
You
have to contact employers because you want to get an interview or at least a
look. If they look at you, they might
decide they like you.
The
more interviews you have, the greater your chances for success.
Make
direct employer contact to ge tinterviews.
Go
straight to an employer and ask to apply for a job.
Show a
strong desire to work without becoming too bothersome.
Go
through the Yellow Pages to find leads.
Go to
conpanies where you live asking about a job without waiting for a job ad.
Start
with contacting employers by phone or email.
If
somebody says we’ll call you in a few weeks, say would it be ok if I call you
in a couple of weeks.
Think
of receptionists as gatekeepers. Be nice
to them.
Rejection
is common.
The
telephone is the best way to make direct contact with employers. Don’t be pushy. Say you’re looking for a job. Ask for the hiring manager or the boss.
If you
can't get past the receptionist, try before 9 a.m.,12:15 and after 5 p.m. or
Saturday.
Send an
eamail asking if any positions are currently open. Say that you will call within a day or two.
Make
the email the cover letter. Attach your
resume.
Also
send via mail what you emailed.
Personal Fulfillment at Work
We live
in an economic climate where unemployed people are desperate for a job and
employed people try very hard to be proper because they are afraid of losing
their jobs.
Everything
in life comes down to both money and how much you use up the inspired energy in
your true nature everyday. It's up to
you. Do what you want and possibly
starve and shut and go to work doing whatever they tell you to do.
All
jobs involve selling your soul.
How
much do you value dignity over money?
The
best you can do is read some of my books and clarify your life for you.
The
Career Counselor-Human Resource Fields Don't Understand the Desperation for
Money
I've
read lots of books and articles on looking for jobs, finding a career, career
transition, etc. The thing that gets me
is how leisurely they are about it.
They
don't understand that all this artsy stuff about finding your soul, your career
aptitude and a good career pasth mean nothing if you have no money and are on
the verge of being homeless.
People
need to work. The type of job doesn't
matter much as long as you're working.
You can
feel as empty as any one but the minute you start working at something, you
immediately calm down and feel good.
My
point with this article is to tell you not to waste time or money with career
counselors offering to try to help you find your soul and place in the
world. Get a job and make money. You can search for a more suitable career
later.
The
first priority is always to get a job, any job.
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Job Seeking is a Full-Time Job
Master the job search
process.
Don’t take rejection
personally. Keep plugging away. Luck is when you’re there when someone needs
someone like you.
What does your resume say
about you.
A hiring manager spends
less than a minute per resume until he sees one that sparks his eye.
Don’t ever act like an
intellectual snob, especially if you’re straight out of college with all that
fantasyland bullshit in your head.
Bosses like upbeat people
but not phony over-the-top upbeat people.
The secret to success is
to be happy at work.
Don’t expect things. If you want a raise, earn it.
If you feel you deserve a
raise and have no evidence to support your argument, you might be perceived as
a lazy bum and be fired if you ask for one.
Build a relationship with
your boss as a hard reliable worker.
Get your boss to like
you.
Dress for Success.
Set up a small area in
your house for a working space. Do extra
work at home.
Have good work
discipline.
There are many lazy bums
and distractions at work. I started out
hanging with the bums but I quickly left them at lunch to work out which made
me feel good and look good for work.
Be visible. Show up early, leave late.
Be a good team
player.
If you isolate yourself,
unless you’re fantastic, people do not like loners at work because they don’t
know what they’re thinking. They want to
know thast everyone is happy, not an angry timebomb.
Learn from your
boss.
Learn from your mistakes.
Strive to do better and
go forward.
Maintain a professional
image. It makes you look stable even if
you’re on anti-anxiety drugs.
If you hate your job,
look for another on ewhile you’re working at this one.
Network.
Recruiters look for
workers on linkedin accounts so have a good, active one.
At heart, we’re
people. In one sense, be civil. In another sense, it’s about money. People are greedy. You need that capitalist for-profit mindset
at least a little bit.
What is your life
about? What do you really want? Is a corny office job worth the money or
would you rather work on a farm? Decide
on what you want then live by it.
Don’t show anger at work.
You can try freelancing
on websites like craigslist, guru and taskrabbit.
Show positive body
language. Act like an open friendly
person without looking fake.
Poor eye contact demonstrates
lack of confidence and immaturity.
Listen and be interested.
Show a genuine interest
in work and the people there.
Negativity is easy to
spot. Once you’re pegged as sad sack,
you’re marked for termination unless you change drastically but leopards don’t
change their spots.
Job Checklist to Clarify What You Want at Work
period of employment you want
full-time
part-time
language at work
bilingual
french
english
job type
permanent
temporary
seasonal
casual
student and youth jobs
agency jobs
jobs linked to government funding
federal public service jobs
education level
management
university
college or apprenticeship training
secondary school and/or occupation-specific training
on-the-job training
job categories
management occupations
business, finance and administration occupations
natural and applied sciences and related occupations
health occupations
occupations in social science, education, government service
and religion
occupations in art, culture, recreation and sport
sales and service occupations
trades, transport and equipment operators and related
occupations
occupations unique to primary industry
occupations unique to processing, manufacturing and
utilities
job types
accounting
advising and consulting
allocating and controlling resources
analysis
analyzing information
biology
building
building and construction
business administration
business management
business, finance and management
chemistry
cleaning and house/shop keeping
clerical
client service
communication
communications and media
communications and transportation
computer and information systems
constructing
cooking, preparing, serving
co-ordinating and organizing
counselling and nurturing
creative expression
debugging and reprogramming technical systems
design
designing
earth sciences (geosciences)
economics
education and training
electricity (electrical and electronics)
engineering and applied technologies
engineering and technology
evaluating
examining and diagnosing
finance
fine and applied arts
finishing building interior/exterior
food production and agriculture
geography
handling goods and materials
health services
history and archaeology
information handling
inspecting and testing
installing and setting-up technical infrastructure
installing building interior infrastructure
interviewing
knowledge
languages (english and french)
languages foreign
law and public safety
law, government, and jurisprudence
leading and motivating
liaising and networking
library and heritage
loading and unloading
management
managing information
manufacturing and production
marketing
mathematics
mathematics and science
mechanical installing, maintaining and repairing
mechanics and machinery
medicine
negotiating and adjudicating
operating and repairing equipment, machinery and vehicles
operating mobile equipment
operating stationary industrial equipment
performing and entertaining
personnel and human resources
philosophy and theology
physics
planning
processing and production
processing information
professional communicating
projecting outcomes
promoting and selling
protecting and enforcing
psychology
public safety and security
recruiting and hiring
researching and investigating
restoring and repairing
sales
service and care
serving others
social sciences and arts
sociology and anthropology
sorting
statistics
strategic planning
supervising
teaching and instruction
teaching and training
telecommunications
tending to daily needs
therapy and counselling
transportation
treating people/animals
using specialized instrumentation and equipment
working with technological equipment and machinery
writing
Use dotdash.com, thebalance.com and
thoughtco.com for Job Articles
Big websites with lots of free articles and lots of ads.
Career Development Guide
Constantly develop skills
in your field. It’s easy to take online
courses for college credit.
Even if it’s not college
credit, many of the free MOOC courses still belong on a resume.
Many companies and NGOS
say they offer continuing education courses and programs to employees. If they do, use them. If not, do it on your own. Keep taking courses. Pad your resume.
Identify career goals and
pathways to achieve them.
Create a Career
Development Plan.
Identify what you’re
interested in then figure out a way to make money from it.
Become good at whatever
career you choose because you’re proud of yourself and want to do well.
Do anything for
professional development. Create one of
these for yoyur field:
website
youtube channel
meetup events
linkedin profile for your
field
twitter or facebook page
for your field
Talk to your boss. Say you want to get ahead. Ask him wha tdo you have to do to get
promoted.
Tell him you want to
learn the field. Ask for advice in
learning it.
Become a mentor to
others.
Do a project on your own.
Look for a better
job. Start a business on the side while
working.
Always keep a
professional image. Never be
controversial about politics or religion.
How do people feel after
they interact with you?
Do people think you’re a
good person?
Network via:
smalltalk
online job boards
professional associations
recruitment agencies
directories
journals and newspapers.
Talk to people in your
field.
Find a work-life that
provides meaning and satisfaction.
These are positive
qualities at work:
focus on doing the job
Seeking solutions and
making improvements
Creating and maintaining
partnerships
understand the needs of
others
developing and mentoring
others
be a good guy or gal for
the team
get things done everyday
Identifying bad processes
and replace them
Think up ways of
improving processes
Communicate
professionally for positive outcomes
Build on your knowledge
and expertise through education and training.
Keep up to date with new
practices.
Propose practical
improvements.
Organize work so that you
can meet deadlines/ quality measures.
Responding to unplanned
things in a professional manner. Don’t
fall to pieces.
Deliver customer-focused,
quality and timely services.
Be aware of work politics
like who’s friends with who, who hates who, etc.
Set a strong professional
example.
Connect staff to the
goals of the company.
Go to a conference in
your field.
Identify what is most
important to you at work. Tell your boss
you want more responsibility to prove yourself.
Some people are true
narcissists. They will not listen to
others. These people should be
unemployable but they get hired because of their charm then turn out to be
duds. Don’t be this person. If someone like that works for you, get rid
of them.
Take advice. Most people want their egos stroked by giving
advice except for a few cranky psychopaths.
At the same time, don’t be a suckhole/ brownnose.
A lot is about Formal
Qualifications even if it’s bullshit.
When I was a teacher, I used to teach useless psychology courses to a
bunch of adults after work who had no intrinsic interest in knowledge for its
own sake. They were all there to upgrade
to a Master’s or doctorate to make more money at work. This is how the system works. Take those courses. Upgrade.
Getting and Doing an Informational Interview
Some
people ask for information interviews.
The idea is that you’re not asking for a job. You’re asking for information about the
field, industry and company while informally trying to network but don’t abuse
it.
If
someone grants you an information interview, don’t ask for a job. Have prepared questions ready about the
field.
The
truth is that a girl can easily get an information interview in any stuffy
company run mostly by men. Men can’t
because other men, unless they’re truly good people, gay or egotistical, don’t
care to mentor another young man. Most
are tired of their jobs.
If
you’re a college student, ask the people at your career center if they can set
you up with a job shadowing situation or an informtion interview.
If
you’re not, email or send a letter to a company saying you want to learn about
the field, asking for an information interview.
The
informational interview is a way to get your foot in the door of a company
without directly asking for a job. It’s
less intrusive than asking for a job straight-out. It gives the interviewer a chance to look at
you and not to have to reject you if he doesn’t like you. If he likes you, he can offer you a job.
At the
very least, you learn about the industry.
Don’t
ask for an informational interview. Ask
if you can have a look and talk about the profession or even offer to bring a
coffee or buy a coffee.
Talk
honestly about your career aspirations.
Don’t
ask for a job outright. If they don't have one and you ask, you put them on the
spot.
They
already know you want a job. If they
like you, they will help you. Don’t ask
for a job. Just say keep me in mind if
something comes up.
Try to
network through linkedin, twitter and facebook to find a person to talk to.
You can
request an interview via telephone, email, skype or regular mail.
Make it
clear that you aren’t requesting a job.
You want to learn about the field.
If they
want to meet live, go and be cordial.
Here are some questions to ask at an informational
interview:
What are the different jobs in this field?
What is a day like?
How is the economy affecting this field?
What is a typical entry-level job?
How hard do you work?
Do you bring work home?
How many hours a day do you work on average?
What are the educational requirements for this job?
Do you work by yourself or in teams?
What is the hardest part of the job?
Who do
you sell to?
What is
the career path for an entry-level job?
What
are related jobs?
What do
you think about the future of our field?
Do you
think this is a growth field?
If you
were starting out, what would you do?
Can you
suggest anyone else I could speak with?
May I
send you my resumé?
Thank the person.
Request a business card
Ask for names of people in the field that might be
interested in talking to you.
Leave a copy of your resume in case an opening comes up.
Send a
thank-you note. Ask the guy to keep you
in mind if they learn of any suitable positions.
Chapter 8. Job Articles 8
Find Yourself, Find a Career
What subjects did you like best at school?
What do you like to do?
Where do you spend your time?
What do you think about?
Listen to your inner voice which is your true nature or
soul. Follow it. That’s why I wrote A Free Spirit’s Search for
Enlightenment.
What do you want:
money
love
freedom
beauty
fame/ recognition
power
meaning
creativity
sense of achievement
to be a master
to be a bigshot
People pick careers without having any idea about what a
typical day on the job is like. They see
some emergency doctor on TV and think it’s cool. You can volunteer to job shadow paramedics or
watch career videos.
Envious of Lazy Fatcats
A saw a video on youtube a rich kid made called The One
Percent. This rich kid is one of the
very few lucky people in the world.
Everybody else will have to work everyday. Why am I telling you this?
So you can get real and know there is real life and a
fantasy life but we don’t know what this kid is thinking. Will this kid ever earn his own self-respect
and meaning? An ancient author Goethe
wrote a story about some guy selling his soul to the devil.
He played around and played around. At the end, he realized he had betrayed his
potential as a human being. That’s the
tragedy all these rich assholes who inherit money never talk about. They do not rise to their own potential
greatness because everything was so easy.
They had a big car and a big house at 21. They thought they were cool but they never
did anything that would be considered greatly inspired. That’s why you must not be envious of fatcats
and simply try to do what God made you to do.
Somewhere deep down they know they’re not great human beings
by any standard.
What to do when Stuck
Change your attitude to your job.
Quit your job.
Get a part-time job elsewhere.
Quit your job, get a part-time job.
Do something creative outside of work.
Ask for a new assignment, a new posting, etc.
Take mental health drugs.
Take a college course.
Start training in another field on the side.
Ask for a new job within the company.
Change department to a similar job.
Go to a new company.
Change to freelance employment.
Take a sabbatical or break.
Take two part-time jobs.
Start a business on the side.
Retrain by getting an online degree.
Use your skills to enter a related profession.
Downgrade your lifestyle so you can live cheaply and not
worry so much about making money.
Get a stepping stone job on the side. For example, a cop I know got a part-time job
as a pizza driver. He learned the pizza
business then set up his own pizza place.
Get a medical check-up.
Hidden diseases cause chronic fatigue.
Lose weight.
Be optimistic. Watch
free success videos on youtube.
Get my money-making superbook.
Everything I read is about goals. It’s not about goals. It’s about saying I was born to be this. I will release natural energy in this
direction everyday.
Fear is almost everything too. I’ve seen every guru say be bountiful, don’t
be scared. They’re all rich selling
their snake oil. They don’t understand
being near homeless. Fear is good but
not if it causes suicide. I saw suicide
photographs on youtube. I feel so sorry
that we, the human race, let people get so hopeless that they kill
themselves. That’s why every politician
is a piece of crap, because they don’t really help people. That’s why I want a big change through the
People Power Program.
Nobody ever wants to talk about desperation. We need governments that give everybody a
small apartment and some food no matter what.
If we don’t do this, there is going to be a lot of darkness in the world
because of the massive unemployment caused by free trade and automation but you
will never see the tragic state of affairs on TV because advertisers have to
keep the consumer jingle going all the way
Make an Action Plan
Make an action plan.
Work on it day by day.
Celebrate small successes.
Get back on it when you fall.
Review the plan.
Keep going.
Don’t depend on anyone for support.
Be courageous and move forward.
Don’t b.s. anybody.
No matter what, if you do not release inspired energy day
after day, you will fall into a pit.
Get inner dignity through your own efforts.
Be a helpful person.
Try hard but don’t sell your soul.
Respect all people.
There are mean, evil and rude people everywhere. They will try to screw you for their own
pleasure.
It’s not about your wounded inner child and all that
stuff. It’s about becoming who you were
born to be, releasing that energy, finding a job, making money.
If you’re too assertive, you can get arrested or they can
call security on you. Society tells us
go after what you want. That’s
fine. Do good work quietly but don’t do
stupid things like demanding to see a manager or something like that. When I read a guerilla marketing book, I
thought it was crazy. I later heard some
guy got arrested for breaking in somewhere and leaving his resume on a guy’s
desk. Don’t listen too much to the lies
of the outside world.
Don’t focus too much about psychobabble. The act of working is enough to make you feel
good.
Always try to be friendly.
Never lose your cool.
Every company has a certain culture. Try to identify it. Act like it.
Know your job duties and do them.
Always show deference and respect to your boss.
Try to learn what you can about your field and job.
Ask about upgrading courses for your job.
Be an encourager.
Make a plan. Except
unexpected changes.
Preparation is the key to success.
Always think about money.
Get my money books or go to #332 at the library.
Get training to upgrade yourself.
If you take new courses, it looks good on a resue.
Everybody wants managers.
Take management courses. Get an
online MBA.
Control your life.
Create a good resume so you have it if you are fired. Take courses. Do a part-time job.
Dark Side of Work
Do your present job as though you are about to be
fired. Have a resume ready. Don’t have anything important at work. Have it at home. Sometimes they fire people and immediately
bar you from your office and computer.
They don’t care. They
will fire anyone in a second.
Take care of yourself.
There is no real loyalty at work.
Be proactive.
Anticipate termination. Be ready.
Always plan for yourself while you are working for
someone. Be prepared in case they axe
you.
Money is king.
Passion and inspiration is New Age lies that I think some elements of
society put out to try to destroy people for their own ends. It doesn’t matter how boring a job is. Money in the bank is all that matters.
If you lose your job, do you have money to survive? Do you have training that can get you another
job? Where can you make contacts?
Do you have a career plan right now in case this one fails?
Do you have another career path in mind?
Do you have a side business or freelance job?
Do you constantly take new courses?
Can you live cheaply if necessary?
Do you know exactly where to look for work?
Do you constantly network?
Don’t burn bridges.
Someday your worst enemy might become your ally.
Focus on your field. Go to seminars, trade shows, etc.
Can you stay inspired day after day?
Helplessness is a feeling that there is nothing you can do.
Business and management courses help in most fields.
Can you start a business, sba.gov.
If you’re in a creative field, create a portfolio or online
portfolio to showcase your work.
Constantly learn about the job market in your field.
There are career transition programs in the community either
through the government, a nonprofit or where you work.
Take a look at your skills and see what different jobs you
might fit in.
While keeping your current job, it’s ok to apply for better
jobs.
Create a professional website. Put up a profile at linkedin.com.
If you set up a helpful blog, it might help you network into
a job.
Approach recruiters.
Put your name in for a new job while you have your current job.
What is another career that you can transition into?
Discover what you like to do. Figure out how to earn money from it.
If you have a part-time job and lose your fulltime job, you
can probably get more hours on your part-time job.
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